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"Hы de knos, but hey, where did you learn these words?"
He speaks treacherouslyThe unfortunate, indecent words appear very early in many children, and this persecutes most parents to a lesser degree. Psychologists say it is better not to make a big scene because of the "preaching" during high schoolbecause the child mostly does not know what inappropriate words mean. It is enough to let the child know that he or she does not like to hear them, which can cause bad feelings in others. The ugly person speaks, or even at different ages different reason and intent on the child's mouth, it is natural that the response to this is very age-dependent. Now we are only talking about the three-year-olds, who in most cases are not at all aware of the meaning of these words, but rather feel sternly and environmentally responsive to what they have found we can call attention to themselves. This is the most common reason that, according to the Transfiguration, the words sinful, indecent, slanderous, obscene are blended into the speech of the young child. he speaks and reiterates what he has heard in his environmentas well as other unknown sultans and expressions. It is only in a minority of cases that a child younger than three years of age intentionally and deliberately wishes to , really serious, eg racist, hate speech, seriously threatening turns are fortunately used by few children. Of course, the person who hears rudeness directly from the parents in the home environment, they say they are absorbed by the mother's milk; The child who brings verbal rudeness from home will, in most cases, speak to an adult. Before we qualify or reprimand, most important is to clarify why the child said what he or she said. Did you want to raise awareness, try to forgive others, or did you simply express the jury in such a way? We may not be able to get a clear answer, but it can be a great deal of clarification. If you aren't sure you want to attract our attention or perhaps others, we should be very careful about our reactions. We may achieve the best results if we do it as if we simply did not hear it. This does not mean, of course, that we have left what we are hearing, that we are just making this device unsuitable for our attention. In this case, we return to your history after a while, in a calm but determined form. It is important for the child to know that there are words that can hurt others and cause them pain, and we don't want them to do that. Between the "bad" words a distinction should be made between genital names and sexual functions. In every society, there are other rules of conduct regarding these words, and mastering them is certainly not an easy task for a two-to-three-year-old child. Because sexuality is all manifestation, this language is loaded with a lot of silence, taboos, all of which cause parents who have given up some standards to spend a few moments. you can usually ask questions about genitalia and reproduction without first being asked. It is true that very quickly the child learns how to use these self-explanatory concepts and functions in a provocative or obscene way. elicited more powerful reactions from most toddler parents than needed, which worsens rather than improves the situation. If the parent wants to maintain in front of the world that his or her child does not commit any injustice, for example, he or she does not speak in cheating, the child, at least, it only uses forbidden words. Probably the most serious consequences of this are also the educational problems at this age, and it is our purpose and perseverance to contain them.